Daygame

I don’t want this blog to be about how to pick up girls, there are many blogs specifically for that, a few of which I will link bellow, but I wanted to create at least one post describing daygame and how it fits into my journey as a recovered alcoholic so I can reference it when I mention it in other posts. Daygame is meeting girls by interrupting them going about their business such as walking along the street, shopping, or sitting in a park or café. This is opposed to “nightgame” where you are meeting girls in bars, clubs, and parties etc, where they are expecting to be hit on. Daygame can actually done at night time, it’s more the venue than the time of the day.

Blue piller’s might get offended by the word game. That’s because they think they are so far superior to the rest of the animals on this planet. From insects to elephants all living organisms have a competitive ritualised system to finding a mate; that is a pretty close definition to “game”. Game is a nice short word, get over it.

I became single at the end of 2015 and decided I wanted to stay that way but still have a sex life. Being a non-drinker and liking early nights going to bars and clubs to meet girls didn’t appeal and I wasn’t attracted to the birds I matched with on Tinder, at least in Australia, Tinder in Asia is good to me. I discovered daygame and it was a revelation that I could just stop a girl in the street and start a conversation and get her number. I loved being outdoors and walking in the daytime, I could walk around, enjoy the sun and my thoughts and hit on any girls I liked the look of that walked past. At least in theory, in practice it was terrifying and the pre-approach nerves took most of the fun out of it, but I persisted and it got easier, the spike of adrenaline and dopamine when a girl gave me a positive response kept me buoyed and then when I got laid a few times and built positive reference experiences it quickly became my lifestyle.

It is un-natural to the nervous system and after doing it now for 2 1/2 years and approaching over 3000 women I still have approach anxiety sometimes, but for the most part I really enjoy it. It has given me sex with over a dozen women, holiday romances, and countless dates. If it is something you are interested in these two blogs are a great place to start. https://krauserpua.com/ and http://tomtorero.com/

I have also met some great guys, including the authors of those two blogs, who also daygame. Surprisingly daygame has been a great source of male friends that are not in recovery. Most of them drink very little if at all, this is not really surprising since they have chosen daygame as their preferred way to meet girls because it is so much healthier than meeting girls in clubs and bars. The scene does attract a number of weirdo’s because you don’t need to be good in group dynamics to approach solo girls during the day, but it also attracts a lot of guys who want to be relationship and location independent. A lot of them, like myself, are digital nomads. Like in AA there is a bond from the devastation we came from, daygamers share a similar past in not feeling fulfilled by fitting into the machine of society. All serious daygamers end up reading red pill literature and see the truth of the sexual market place.